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What to Expect at the Familiengericht
Practical Guides12 min read01/15/2025
A practical guide to navigating family court proceedings in Germany, from filing to final decision.
Introduction
Going to family court (Familiengericht) can feel overwhelming. This guide helps you understand what to expect.
Before You File
1. Gather Information
- Understand your situation
- Know what you're asking for
- Have documents ready
2. Consider Alternatives
- Mediation through Jugendamt
- Direct negotiation with the other parent
- Legal consultation
Filing Your Application
Where to File
- Your local Amtsgericht (Familiengericht division)
- Usually in the city where the child lives
- Check court websites for exact procedures
What to Include
- Completed application form
- Supporting documents
- Cover letter explaining your request
- Proposed solution (for contact orders)
The Court Process
Initial Review (2-4 weeks)
- Court reviews your application
- May request additional documents
- May ask for Jugendamt input
Possible Outcomes
Simple Cases:
- Court may decide without a hearing
- Issues a Beschluss (order)
- You're notified by mail
Complex Cases:
- Court schedules a hearing (Termin)
- Both parents are invited
- Jugendamt may be present
- Court makes a decision
The Hearing
What Happens
- Judge explains the process
- Both sides present their case
- Judge may ask questions
- Jugendamt may provide input
- Judge may suggest mediation
What to Bring
- All relevant documents
- Notes about your situation
- Proposed solutions
- Support person (if allowed)
Tips
- Be respectful and factual
- Focus on the child's best interests
- Listen to the judge's questions
- Don't interrupt the other parent
After the Decision
If Approved
- Court issues a Beschluss
- Order is legally binding
- Both parents must comply
If Not Approved
- You can appeal (Beschwerde)
- Deadline is usually 1 month
- Consider getting legal advice
Costs
- Court fees vary by case
- Simple applications: ~50-150 EUR
- Complex cases: higher fees
- Legal aid may be available
Getting Help
- Jugendamt: Free counseling
- Legal aid organizations
- Family law attorneys
- Our Directory: Find local support
Disclaimer: This guide provides general information only, not individualized legal advice. Consult a qualified family law attorney for advice specific to your situation.