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Understanding Contact Orders (Umgangsregelung)

Legal Process10 min read01/15/2025

Learn what contact orders are, when you need one, and how to apply for one in German family courts.

What is a Contact Order?


A contact order (Umgangsregelung) is a court decision that sets out when and how a parent can have contact with their child. It's legally binding and enforceable.


When Do You Need One?


  • Contact is being blocked or restricted
  • Parents can't agree on a schedule
  • You want a formal, enforceable arrangement
  • Safety concerns require structured contact

The Legal Basis


Under BGB §1684:

  • Children have the right to contact with both parents
  • Parents have the right and duty to have contact
  • Contact can only be restricted for serious reasons

How to Apply


  1. **Try Mediation First**

- Many courts prefer parents try mediation

- Jugendamt offers free mediation services

- Mediated agreements can be formalized


  1. **File an Application**

- At your local Familiengericht

- Include a proposed schedule

- Explain why contact is important


  1. **Court Process**

- Court may request Jugendamt report

- Hearing may be scheduled

- Court considers child's best interests


What Should a Schedule Include?


  • Weekday contact times
  • Weekend arrangements
  • Holiday and vacation time
  • Handover locations and procedures
  • Special considerations (age, distance, etc.)

Our Tool Can Help


  • Generate a contact order application
  • Create a proposed schedule
  • Include all necessary legal citations
  • Prepare supporting documents

Enforcement


If a contact order is violated:

  • Document the violations
  • File for enforcement (Vollstreckung)
  • Court can impose penalties
  • In serious cases, custody may be reconsidered

Disclaimer: This guide provides general information only, not individualized legal advice. Consult a qualified family law attorney for advice specific to your situation.

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