How to File for Joint Custody in Germany

Overview

For unmarried parents in Germany, joint custody (gemeinsame Sorge) doesn't happen automatically. This guide walks you through the process.

Step 1: Check Prerequisites

• Paternity must be acknowledged (Vaterschaftsanerkennung)
• Both parents must agree to joint custody
• No existing court order preventing joint custody

Step 2: Choose Your Path

Option A: Joint Declaration (Sorgeerklärung)

The fastest way if both parents agree:

1. Both parents go to the Jugendamt or Standesamt
2. Sign a joint custody declaration
3. The declaration is registered
4. Joint custody is established immediately

Option B: Court Application

If one parent doesn't agree or you prefer a court order:

1. File an application at your local Familiengericht
2. Court reviews the application
3. May schedule a hearing
4. Court issues a decision

Step 3: Gather Documents

• Birth certificate
• Paternity acknowledgment certificate
• ID documents for both parents
• Any existing court orders

Step 4: File Your Application

Use our tool to generate a properly formatted application with:

• Cover letter
• Application form
• Document checklist

What Happens Next?

• Simple cases: 2-4 weeks
• Contested cases: 1-3 months
• Court may request additional information

Legal Basis

• BGB §1626a - Joint custody for unmarried parents
• BGB §1626 - General custody rules

Need Help?

• Contact your local Jugendamt for free counseling
• Use our Directory to find legal aid organizations
• Consult a family law attorney for complex cases