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The First 10 Legal Steps Every Expecting Parent in Germany Should Take
Parenthood Preparation7 min read12/11/2025by CustodyClarity
A simple, clear checklist for expectant parents — including the documents, decisions, and appointments you shouldn’t postpone.
Becoming a parent brings joy — and paperwork.
Here are the 10 essential legal steps every expecting parent should take in Germany:
1. Register early with your chosen hospital.
2. Make an appointment at the Jugendamt for paternity acknowledgment.
3. Sign the **Sorgeerklärung** if unmarried.
4. Plan childcare (Kita) waiting lists early.
5. Clarify insurance coverage for mother and child.
6. Secure both parents' identification documents.
7. Learn the deadlines for Elterngeld and Kindergeld applications.
8. Choose a midwife (Hebamme) before the third trimester.
9. Discuss your co-parenting expectations.
10. Document everything immediately.
These steps remove unnecessary stress and create a strong foundation for your family.
Disclaimer: This blog post reflects personal experiences and opinions. It does not constitute legal advice. For advice specific to your situation, consult a qualified family law attorney.
About the Author
CustodyClarity is a father who has navigated the German custody system. This tool was built to help other parents facing similar challenges.